Understand Your Why
Last week one of my clients had a breakthrough; she went one
whole week without eating a single packet of crisps.
Now this might not seem like a huge breakthrough to you BUT
it is my clients’ lightbulb moment. We both know this one act has helped
her to turn a corner.
Lots of people find themselves reaching for comfort in food
during times of stress/unhappiness or simply out of habit.
The first question I ask my clients is WHY it “really”
matters that they become healthier. I don’t just mean the standard answers of
losing weight or looking better. We both need to know why it’s going to happen
this time. What are the consequences of not doing it this time? Most
importantly it’s often what they have to lose that I want us to get to the
bottom of. When we know what’s at stake it’s a whole lot easier to understand
why making better choices is important.
Understanding Your Why is the first step to making the
changes necessary to live a healthier life.
Now my client can of course choose to eat a packet of
crisps, they are not banned and nor did I tell her she had to stop eating them
completely. Quite the opposite; I actually advise my clients to wean themselves
gradually off the foods that are keeping them in unhealthy, unhappy bodies. We
simply crave those things more if they are banned!
I know a lot of people think it’s a lack of willpower or
motivation that is preventing them from being healthy and active but I really
believe it’s a lack of understanding. When you know why it’s important to be
healthy that’s the motivation! You will be pleasantly surprised how easily the
motivation to eat better and be more active is when you fully understand your
why.
Adhering to the world’s best nutrition or exercise plan will
be extremely difficult without spending some time thinking about why it’s
important beforehand.
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